Wednesday, December 02, 2020
Tuesday, December 01, 2020
Long after I was no longer sick, I had no energy.
At the beginning of November, I realized my dogs can't tell time.
They did not understand that what they THOUGHT was 5:AM, which was pretty okay by me,
was now 4:AM which was why I was sitting on the love seat drinking coffee at 4:30 when my phone rang.
It was the emergency room doctor telling me that my mother had been brought in via ambulance with severe stomach pain (remember she had three emergency surgeries in four years for twisted intestines) and that they did a CT scan and found blockage. They felt that it was more that they could handle on a local level and wanted permission to transfer her to an acute care hospital.
Within two hours, I had spoken to two surgeons and the anestheologist. All three told me that without surgery, she would die. I gave permission.
Two hours after that, I got a call from a third surgeon who told me that her entire small intestine was dead and that her blood pressure bottomed out and her heart stopped. They did get her heart beating and told us they would TRY to keep it going until we got there to say good bye.
I called my kids, my brother and her pastor. There were nine of us in all.
About 3, they took her off the ventilator and we stood around her bed, telling "Toots" stories until she took her final breath.
Funny thing, my mom was 89, had multiple health issues, each more serious that the last. Every day for the past three years, I wondered if this would be the last day for her, yet it was such a shock when it finally happened. She was raking leaves the day before!
I'm still in shock.
On the other hand, Locklan and I had a conversation about death. He was impressed that Grandma Toots now lived in heaven and was all better but he wished he could see her just one more time.
I thought that was sweet until he explained that he just wanted to see her with all the strings on her.
Yes. He figured that God had to tie people down so they didn't float away.
Out of the mouth of babes.
So that's where I've been. It's been a tough year but there were certainly good things happening.
I'll come back and share them. Soon.
Thursday, October 29, 2020
I know that I have so much to talk about
but I'm still playing 'catch up' after being out of commission for all that time...
But I want to keep in touch, and I want to share my family...
Now I don't know if you know, but I'm a Norwex junkie!
Just before Ashley was going back to work and I was going to watch Locklan
My neighbor introduced me to the products that would clean your house with just water...
I fell in love. I had a crawling baby...I didn't want chemicals on the floors!
It took a while, but little by little Ashley fell in love with them too.
She's now a consultant, which means we own at least one of everything they sell...
But seriously, after 5 years...
She posted these photos...
Now I don't know about you, but if I found a 'magic' cloth that would make my kids want to clean...
I'd buy two!
My boys were very helpful around the house.
Once, when my dad was in the hospital, his pastor said the would stop at the house for coffee.
Before leaving for the hospital, I wrote a note for the boys...
"Pastor Jeff coming. Please do not leave your dishes in the sink."
That afternoon I came home to find the sink full of shoes and the dirty dishes on the floor beside the back door...
Kids...and you were wondering why I stopped at 4?
Okay, time to get busy...
Love to all...
Saturday, October 24, 2020
I know it looks like I dropped off the face of the earth...
I did not.
So much going on, from Mama Drama (issues with my mom)
to getting really sick and chalking it up to stress (it was not)
to fearing Covoid (I was tested negative)...
My life was almost normal for a bit, and yesterday was one of the high spots.
Remember this day?
Henry's big announcement?
Yesterday was even more exciting...
When Tony hit that golf ball that revealed Henry.
Since Henry loves to golf, yesterday he got to hit the gender reveal ball...Yes, Henry's brother will be here in March.Needing a nap, talk to you later.Love ya!
Tuesday, September 22, 2020
Even though the thermometer on my desk says it's 40 degrees outside my kitchen window...
Even though they are saying it's autumn...
Even though Andy and I had a detailed conversation about pulling the boat and docks for the season...
I REFUSE to admit summer is over.
I REFUSE to decorate for fall.
I am not giving up my grip on summer that quickly.
This was the best, most fun summer we have had in years!
No way! You won't see colored leaves, scare crows or pumpkins here,
Not until October, maybe later.
Maybe I'll leave summer things up until it's time to decorate for Christmas.
I'm thinking that we can wear winter coats and take the boat out.
Hand warmers, foot warmers and hot chocolate?
On the other hand...
Friday, September 18, 2020
I'm a bad sleeper!
Getting things together for a good night's sleep has taken me two years!
I need white noise but do not want to hear it before I am ready to sleep.
Alexa to the rescue!!!
I like to sleep on my side but don't want to wake up with a crooked neck.
Side-sleeper pillow to the rescue!
Came this morning and our house exterior is sparkling clean!I'm a well-rested happy camper!
Thursday, September 17, 2020
So much happening. Not today, but in the next few weeks.
Tomorrow the guy is going to come and pressure wash our house.
He will be there at 9AM so we have to move everything off the patio.
Easy for someone half our ages, time consuming for us.
Yesterday the guy from Bright Covers came to double check all measurements
for our new awning. I'm so excited. Can't wait to see that Sunsetter gone.
I have hated that thing since half way through the first year!
Yesterday morning I got a call from Locklan.
He wanted to tell me that he didn't feel like going to school.
A few minutes of pep talking and he was fine.
Yesterday Teagan had her first Kindermusik class. She loved it!
She called it school and danced around the house to show us what she could do now.
She stayed with us while Ashley ran errands.
She's a hoot. She kept putting a pair of pants on her head and shouting, "Can you hear me?"
All that chattering and he managed to join the clean plate club!